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August 11, 2024

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Paddling the world of parties and turntables, DJ Baby Yu’s story may not be in many Asian parents’ favor, who prefer more stable nine-to-five academic jobs. He talks about family expectations, the entertainment industry, the values of his “unconventional” job, and more. 

We all love dancing, don’t we? Sometimes, it feels good to just let your hair down and move to the music for a bit. That’s where DJs come in, blending beats and energizing crowds from all walks of life.

Nonetheless, this job may receive quite a few skeptical and questioning frowns from Asian parents. Uncontrollable parties, unprecedented futures, and unstoppable debaucheries are what the music industry is all about, many would argue. However, DJ Baby Yu is here to bring more Asian creatives to the forefront, shattering the traditional barriers that may hinder them.

Rewind to 28 years ago, in tight-knit local college radios and nightclubs, flooded with ravers and heart-throbbing hip-hop music. Daniel Nakayama, known as Baby Yu, who made mixtapes featuring hosts like Ye, Ciara, and The Game, might be unmoored; but he knew what he was doing and that he was doing it for the fun of it all.

Asian Parents and Conventional Jobs

If the nine-to-five cyclic life is considered to be successful in many Asian households, then the fun-blasting, bass-hitting life would be considered to be one of the most unconventional career paths. “Not all of us are destined for high-paying traditional jobs,” he said. “Generally speaking, our parents weren’t supportive unless we finished school, earned a degree, and pursued a prestigious job.”

Upon the chance meeting with an old friend who happened to be DJ-ing at a house party, uninvited yet inspired, he bought a pair of turntables and records the day right after. Starting to DJ in high school and defining his career at university, he describes the universal battle of fighting for your dream, especially for someone with an immigrant background, where traditional values were the guiding star.

As a child of immigrant parents from Miyazaki, Japan, I share the growing pains experienced by many first-generation Asian children. Our parents often try to shape our futures, pushing us toward careers like doctors, nurses, or lawyers, without considering our personal interests and passions.

At the end of the day, those expectations only came from their own experiences and their desire for their children to have a happy and stable future.

However, once my parents saw me perform on TV, heard me on the radio, and received praise from their friends’ children, they understood that I had found something that made me happy. That realization was all that mattered to them.

The Mash-Ups of Highs and Lows in the Music Industry

This industry is no stranger to a bad reputation, where another rising public darling replaces the ones who don’t transform, where every part of your career move is baselessly evaluated and overblown, where the radio label could count you out if they can no longer profit from you.

DJ Baby Yu (center) with Drake (left) and Jeezy

It’s tough work being an artist in this competitive landscape. One may have to toe the line for mainstream appeal. Some may scream “Smash it, I’m here to do my own thing.”

Whatever approach they may choose, the Internet has given rise to the demand for artists with distinctive musical personalities. “There are no rules for how you should express yourself in life,” he says. “If people understand and believe in you, they’ll follow. If not, that’s okay—they’re not your audience. There will always be those who appreciate your art and direction. Focusing on this has helped me overcome any obstacles life throws my way.”

He Did It for the Fun and He Did It for the Asians

Despite the struggles, Daniel took a moment to reflect on what he had learned from his shows around the world, where he gets to travel to new places, meet new people, throw joyful parties, and try new things.

As I matured in the industry, I ventured into new areas, working on artist development and taking on marketing and branding projects for companies like Puff Puff in Thailand and Whims in Austin. Event planning is another passion of mine, and I particularly enjoy creating fun and unique events.

A shot from the Wiz Khalifa: Under The Influence of Music Tour in Toronto, Canada, featuring Daniel as the tour DJ for Jeezy

Back in Toronto, he was holding a “branded party” called Playbook Social, where he mixed “food, cocktails, karaoke and DJs.” The party sold out, seated the most versatile community in the city. Of course, if you were in the game for the right purpose, like-minded individuals will team up and recognize what you’re doing, even way before you realize it. It turns out that what he’s been doing has such a tremendous impact on the AAPI community.

There have been several times in my life when loyal supporters have come up to me and thanked me for what I do, often ending with the phrase, “You’re doing it for all the Asians!” For a while, I didn’t fully understand that sentiment. In my mind, I was doing it for myself, for the love of music, and to make everyone around me happy.

However, as I traveled and understood my cultural position in the industry, whether I was the only Asian in a room full of Hip Hop leaders or in the pop scene dominated by white people, I realized there weren’t many Asians in these spaces. Times have changed now, with K-pop gaining global popularity, but back then, it was different. Asians weren’t the creators of R&B, soul, Hip Hop, house, rock, or pop music; we were lovers of these cultures, trying to fit in.

Connect With DJ Baby Yu

Curating a unique and eventful experience is the ultimate wish of any musician. DJ Baby Yu has never been one to shy away from collaborating with rising Asian talents. His upcoming event, a collaboration project with UPRISERS, a Japanese female-owned AAPI streetwear brand, is meant to bring together great Asian talent and leaders for celebration and appreciation.

I’ve teamed up with UPRISERS, a Japanese female-owned AAPI streetwear brand, to celebrate their 5th anniversary. Other AAPI groups, such as FACE (Filipinos Advancing Creative Education) and Represent ASIAN Project, are also promoting this event. My goal is to bring together great Asian talent and leaders under one roof to celebrate each other.

This event is also one of the official events of SKAM Summer 2024, a two-day DJ and influencer weekend at the Mondrian Hotel in West Hollywood, created by Sujit Kundu of SKAM Artist (more information at https://skamartist.com/skamsummer).

“Now, I truly understand when people say, “I’m doing it for the Asians.” As a leader, I want to guide and nurture the next generations with the experiences and knowledge I’ve gained over my 28-year career, especially within the Asian community. Collaborating with Uprisers is one way to bring Asian leaders together to celebrate life and acknowledge our achievements.”

Event details:
RSVP: https://UPRISERSxSKAMSUMMERxBABYYU.eventbrite.com
Date: Monday, August 19, 2024
Time: 8 PM – Midnight (PT)
Location: Kimpton Everly Hotel, 1800 Argyle Ave, Los Angeles, CA 90028

Personal contact
Website: https://babyyu.com/
IG: @djbabyyu

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Her Father Ignored Her For 8 Months When She No Longer Wanted To Be A Doctor

This may have happened to you (maybe not the musical writing part), or you may know someone from an Asian background who is currently struggling as their parents had strongly expected or already had chosen a job for them.

But how many of you have bravely rejected your parents’ desires, and followed your true passion? Take it from this courageous girl, Joy Regullano. You might remember her from the viral YouTube sketch called White Fetish, or various random acting gigs like the TV Series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (her line was “Yeah, bitch!”) or Modern Family (with her line was “You fools!”).

That’s right, Joy is quite too far from wearing a white coat. She’s an actress, comedian, and writer — every Asian parents’ nightmare. So when she told her parents that she didn’t want to be a doctor anymore, her father didn’t talk to her for 8 months. Years later, she wrote a comedy musical about it, called Supportive White Parents.

“Working on this musical has been a major part of my healing journey (my parents are imperfect people who were just passing down intergenerational trauma) and maybe it can be part of yours too,” Joy expresses.

Read through as Joy shares how she has discovered her passion for comedy, and her journey to healing and acceptance through her musical.

MY WHOLE LIFE, I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BE A DOCTOR JUST LIKE MY PARENTS

My parents were born and raised in the Philippines. My dad grew up very poor in one of the provinces, but after scoring in the top percentage of all students across the country on an exam, he got a scholarship to a prestigious science high school in Manila that was all expenses paid. My parents met in medical school, and soon after graduating, they came to the US by way of New York. Eventually, they made their way across the country to Eagle Rock in LA and then Orange County, where I grew up. 

My whole life, I thought I was going to be a doctor just like my parents. I tried my best to be the perfect daughter. I got straight A’s and took piano lessons since I was 3 and violin lessons starting at 8. (Well, actually, I got one B+ in AP/IB Physics, but we don’t talk about that B+) I studied math outside of school at Kumon and played educational computer games because it was a productive use of my time. I read medical books my parents had lying around the house and had subscriptions to science magazines in high school, for fun.

But as I grew older, there was a part of me that was starting to love writing and making people laugh. For 7th-grade vocabulary exercises, I cared more about making my sentences funny than using the word right. My favorite part about English and Spanish group projects was writing the scripts and acting in them. I wrote bad high school poetry. But I didn’t think that was an acceptable thing to want to do with my life, so I shoved that part down, deep inside me. I did write for the school newspaper and compete in speech contests and debate teams, but that was about the extent of my (public) creative life. 

But as I grew older, there was a part of me that was starting to love writing and making people laugh.

-Joy Regullano

I LOVED FEELING LIKE I COULD MAKE THE AUDIENCE LAUGH AND CRY JUST BY TELLING AN HONEST STORY

I went to UC Berkeley pre-med and was planning to take over my dad’s clinic when he retired. But in the first semester of my freshman year, I got a B on my first math test and a C on my first chem test, and I panicked. After some soul-searching, I realized I wasn’t actually passionate about any of that and ended up cycling through a bunch of different majors before landing on Theater and Southeast Asian Studies.

I wrote a play in college about a friend who had passed away in high school, and when I put it up in front of an audience, I was hooked. I loved feeling like I could make the audience laugh and cry just by telling an honest story. Just by being myself. I wanted to do that for the rest of my life. I loved Tina Fey and Amy Poehler’s work so much that I couldn’t even watch them for a long time because it hurt that I wasn’t doing what they were doing. 

WHITE PARENTS: A MUSICAL INSPIRED BY MY LIFE

I wrote the book and the lyrics to a comedy musical called “Supportive White Parents” about an Asian girl who tells her parents she doesn’t want to be a doctor anymore, and when they’re disappointed, she wishes on a shooting star for supportive white parents. Eventually, she learns to love her Filipino parents for who they are. My friends Sam Johnides and Tony Gonzalez wrote the music.

The musical was inspired by my life. When I told my parents I didn’t want to be a doctor like them and take over my dad’s clinic, my dad yelled at me, called me selfish, and didn’t talk to me for 8 months. I was absolutely devastated, even though I knew that making people laugh and cry was what I had been put on this earth to do. 

I felt so jealous of my white theater classmates with their seemingly endlessly supportive white parents. And funny enough, they were jealous of me because I had something called “discipline”, played multiple instruments, and knew other languages. And thus, the seed of a musical was born.

Eventually, she learns to love her Filipino parents for who they are.

-Joy Regullano

LAUGHING AT OURSELVES CAN BE ONE OF THE BEST WAYS TO HEAL

There aren’t many Asian American musicals, let alone comedy Asian American musicals. One of my teachers says that comedy is the back door to the truth. I think that laughing at ourselves can be one of the best ways to heal, as well as realizing that we are not alone. 

We as a generation are going through this together, and also, we, as well as our parents, are the products of society and intergenerational trauma. We are all imperfect people who are trying the best we can with the tools we have. 

ACCEPTANCE IS THE QUICKEST WAY TO SANITY AND PEACE

I love the serenity prayer. There are some things that we can change, and we should do what we can to change those things. There are some things we can’t change, and it’ll drive you crazy trying to. You can’t control other people. You can only control yourself. The sooner you can accept other people are how they are, the sooner you’ll stop giving your energy away. 

Also, one thing I learned that blew my mind is that it’s actually not love, to wish that your parents or family were different than who they are. If what I was asking from them was to love me for exactly who I am, with all my imperfections, isn’t that what I should be giving them too? Unconditional love and acceptance? (That’s not to say that you shouldn’t have boundaries – that could be a whole other article.) But accepting things you can’t change is the quickest way to sanity and peace. 

If what I was asking from them was to love me for exactly who I am, with all my imperfections, isn’t that what I should be giving them too?

-Joy Regullano

It’s a daily practice. But try it! After reading “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck”, I tried to imagine that I only had one f– to give a day. How much energy would I be saving by only getting bent out of shape over the most important things!? I’m not really good at giving only one f– a day. But I’ll keep trying.

One more thing – some people need to be angry before they move to acceptance. I know I did, and I still feel angry sometimes. Accepting yourself and your feelings is part of the process too. Wherever you are in your journey is okay.

CONNECT WITH JOY

Instagram: @supportivewhiteparents @joyregullano

Twitter: @swpmusical @joyregullano

Website: www.supportivewhiteparents.com

Be on the lookout for the upcoming Supportive White Parent concept album, to be released in January 2023, with singles leading up to it! 

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Dallas Omakase Restaurant Makes Memorable Dining Experience For Deaf Couple With Staff Using ASL

Victor Montiel and Melissa Keomoungkhoun were on the verge of tears as they expressed their gratitude to the Tatsu Dallas’ personnel for making their experience unforgettable.

The couple, who are both deaf, revealed in Today that they are used to getting ready in explaining themselves using their voices and American Sign Language, displaying texts from their phones, or even asking for pen and paper.

Melissa’s sister was worried that interaction with the staff would be difficult because she was aware that “omakase” means that diners receive meals that include foods chosen especially by the chef, which means more word-of-mouth discussion.

In advance of this, Melissa wrote Tatsu to inquire as to whether they could still enjoy the meal to its fullest without being able to hear the chef describe each course. She was shocked to learn that they had already gotten the tasting menu, which also listed the available drinks/cocktails, and that a complete menu will be available when they visited.

What surprised them more was the night of their reservation as they were greeted in American Sign Language (ASL) by the staff, including the Beverage Director who is the wife of the chef-owner.

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She also shared that they gazed in wonder at the excellent service that they received.

The excellent personnel and food service that Tatsu delivers to its guests were posted on Twitter by Melissa’s sister Nataly Keomoungkhoun, the online dining editor of D magazine. Her tweet received thousands of likes and retweets.

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The martial arts legend died young at 32 in 1973, a month before “Enter the Dragon,” the first Hollywood/Hong Kong film he co-produced, was set to premiere as mentioned in NBC News.

Since his passing, many biopics have been made like Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story, Bruce Lee: A Dragon Story, Bruce Lee: The Man, and many more.

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Ang’s son, Mason Lee, who is known for his roles in “Hangover Part II” and “Billy Lynn’s Long Halftime Walk,” will be playing the role.

“Accepted as neither fully American nor Fully Chinese, Bruce Lee was a bridge between East and West who introduced Chinese Gung Fu to the world, a scientist of combat and an iconic performing artist who revolutionized both the martial arts and action cinema,” Ang Lee was quoted saying.

He also said that he feels driven to share the story of this intelligent, singular human being who craved belonging, possessed incredible strength in a 135-pound frame, and through unrelenting hard work, converted impossible goals into reality.

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Meanwhile, 3000 Pictures president Elizabeth Gabler said that Ang has long dreamed of directing Bruce Lee’s biopic, an inspirational tale of twists and turns, a story of the timeless premier real-life action hero.

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How Christopher Thang Juggles Medical School and Entrepreneurship With Time Optimization Strategies

You don’t really need to feel motivated to start — you just need to start! (easier said than done, right?)

While it’s also important to understand why you put off doing something and what causes it, what’s even more important is overcoming it.

Christopher Thang is a medical student at the University of Texas Medical Branch. He is also an Online Fat Loss Specialist certified by the National Academy of Sports Medicine.

His current mission is to help busy working professionals lose 15+ lbs in 60 days with his Progressive Eating Strategy and fitness-lifestyle optimization systems.  

Read through as Christopher shares how he manages his time as both a full-time medical student and entrepreneur.

The Chronic Procrastinator

Now, I am not saying I have the busiest schedule out there, and I definitely do not. But, I’ve included a breakdown of my time-saving strategies below that help me find time to work on my business, study for medical school exams, and travel across the US to meet clients.

My deep dive into time management started in college. I was a chronic procrastinator and always rushed to meet deadlines the night before they were due. This left me super anxious and my disorganized tendencies, unfortunately, caused me to arrive late to almost everything. It got so bad that I showed up late to or forgot about work meetings, social events, and even important family gatherings.

Eventually, I had enough of winging my schedule every day (some days I didn’t even know I had tasks due). I tried countless things to improve my time management, and after a few years of trial and error (still ongoing), I came up with these 3 approaches that helped.

I was a chronic procrastinator and always rushed to meet deadlines the night before they were due. This left me super anxious and my disorganized tendencies, unfortunately, caused me to arrive late to almost everything.

-Christopher Thang

Strategy 1: Time Block Everything

Simply put, I time block my entire day out on Google Calendar as the day goes along. It may sound intense, and it honestly is… But, after I delegate tasks, meetings, and other life events, I gain structure and peace of mind for the day. I’m also able to look back at each day to see what I can be more efficient on.

Now, I don’t time block out every single minute of each day a week in advance (would be overwhelming), but I plan ahead for important events. By including things such as meal prep, working out, and business meetings, I can make a micro-commitment beforehand to fit these things into my schedule.

On the day of such events, I time block my day in 15, 30, or 1 hour+ chunks. Once I gain control and understanding of my time, I leverage it to do more work in less time throughout the day (of course, I have to be realistic when time blocking out tasks). I’m also able to enjoy social events, family time, and travel without worrying about work which brings me to Strategy 2.

Strategy 2: 100% Work or 100% Relaxation

Building off of Strategy 1, I stick to a hard rule of either working 100% or relaxing 100%. I take every effort to avoid the gray area in between, where I’d end up working inefficiently or trying to relax (and failing) because work is on my mind.

So, on my calendar, I include 15-minute blocks labeled “Break” (when I’m dividing up work into several chunks using the Pomodoro Method) and long hours blocked off for “Social Events” or “Family Time.”

Of course, life happens frequently, and sometimes events may take longer/shorter than expected or something may come up that interrupts my entire schedule. This brings me to Strategy 3 below.

Strategy 3: Plan Ahead, But Be Flexible

Whenever something unexpected happens, I time block it out in my calendar and shift everything down (Google Calendar lets me click and drag events around on my phone really easily).

Sometimes I shift down tasks so much that I have to move them on to the next day (if possible), but I remind myself to stay realistic if life suddenly hits on some days.

Connect with Christopher 

Now, I didn’t develop these approaches overnight, and they took time to develop into daily habits.

However, I hope my strategies would be able to inspire others to stay mindful of their time and perhaps try some of my approaches to elevate their personal lives and hustles.

Linkedin: Christopher Thang

Instagram: @christopher.thang

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