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February 14, 2025

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The Immigrant Struggle

“We dream of going to America, to change our lives, we believed. But my life changed so much. I felt sad about life, didn’t know the language, and didn’t know the roads. I had no friends, so I felt very sad.” – Phong, a Vietnamese American expat interviewed by the Pew Research Center.

“I sometimes, just a little, wish that I would disappear so that my parents and my sister could be better off.” – Nolan, an Asian American interviewed by the Pew Research Center.

Dreams vs. Reality

The American Dream is often celebrated as a path to success, yet its reality is far more nuanced. Tales of rags to riches from Asian peers suggest its promise, but the Pew Research Center reports that one in ten Asian Americans still live in poverty as of 2024. The issue lies not solely in the Dream itself but in how it is constructed and understood.

For many Asians, the American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience—a belief that effort alone can overcome systemic barriers. But resilience, by its nature, demands enduring hardship and accepting foreignness, perpetuating a narrative that reinforces isolation and discrepancy.

The American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience (Image Source: Roberto Parada)

The American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience (Image Source: Roberto Parada)

The Illusion of Gold

The idolization of a Western nation paved in gold is an illusion that perpetuates xenophobia and the model minority myth. This ideological flaw is alluring and dangerous. We have all heard heartbreaking stories of illegal labor exports and stowaway immigrants. Yet we tend to remember the rags-to-riches stories because it is comforting to view ourselves as the ones who might make it. All while labeling these immigrants as illegal, the other, the individual Asian Americans who will live in poverty. But by doing so, we have fallen trapped in the American Dream, clawing our way to the top for the sake of others. 

After the pandemic, anti-Asian and hate crimes have increased. The encounter paints a reflection of our society, there is no line between the one and the other nine, we are Asians and that is our identity. Then is the American Dream a lie? Not necessarily—but it is far from universal.

Community as the Key

Like all dreams, it is what we make of it.  Whether in America, Asia, or any part of the world, opportunities coexist with difficulties. Moving to another country means tackling obstacles such as language and cultural barriers alongside the burden you once had at home. Statistics show that 61% of Asian adults seek family and friends when facing financial burdens. This can become challenging when migrating to a new country. 

The key lies in recognizing that success is not achieved alone. Building networks and fostering solidarity within communities can challenge the isolating demands of resilience and redefine the Dream as a collective effort toward meaningful progress.

The American Dream is both a beacon of hope and a paradox. For many Asian Americans, the pursuit of upward mobility comes with sacrifices that are often overlooked. Yet, success doesn’t need to be a solitary journey. By embracing shared struggles and fostering a supportive community, one can find hope by redefining what the American Dream truly means.

Sources: Pew Research Center – 1 in 10: Redefining the Asian American Dream (Short Film), Pew Research Center – The Hardships and Dreams of Asian Americans Living in Poverty, Edelman, C&EN, Reappropriate.

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Join us as we discover more about her journey in the world of CrossFit.

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO REPRESENT THE PHILIPPINES AND ASIAN ATHLETES IN THE WORLD OF CROSSFIT?

Mixed emotions. I feel very privileged and extremely proud to represent the Philippines as one of the first Fil-American athletes – the fact that I am one of the first points out the lack of DEI (diversity – equity – inclusion) in the sport.

Representation matters. Seeing professional athletes that represent minorities is crucial for aspiring athletes. I hope that I can inspire Filipino/AAPI/Asian athletes to continue to break stereotypes.

COULD YOU SHARE A SPECIFIC INSTANCE WHERE YOU HAD TO MAKE A SIGNIFICANT SACRIFICE TO PURSUE YOUR GOALS?

Honestly, from the outside looking in, my entire career is one overarching ‘sacrifice.’ My daily activities are all dictated by the fact that I need to be able to train for 5-8 hours, fuel my body to sustain my training, and get enough rest and recovery to do it all again when I wake up.

For now, I miss out on celebrating weddings, date nights, vacations, and holidays all in the pursuit of greatness. On the days that my motivation battery is at 0, I am able to lean on the fact that all of the elements of my training are not actually a ‘sacrifice,’ but a temporary expenditure for tomorrow’s success. 

AS AN ATHLETE WHO HAS COMPETED IN VARIOUS INTERNATIONAL CHAMPIONSHIPS, HOW DO YOU APPROACH THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL ASPECTS OF COMPETITION?

“Have courage” is a mantra I repeat to myself in moments of doubt – whether I am training or before the 3-2-1 countdown in competition. To me, having courage means having strength in the face of something that frightens me, hardships, or adversity.

It’s an affirmation to myself that “I belong here & I believe in myself.”

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE CHALLENGES YOU HAVE FACED IN FINDING SUPPORT IN A SPORT WITH LIMITED SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES FOR ATHLETES LIKE YOU?

CrossFit is a niche sport and Asian brands actively marketing in the CrossFit space seem close to non-existent. I have tried to branch out to brands that market to the general ‘fitness’ industry but have been met with little interest on their end for partnerships. 

While it is discouraging to be rejected, I am hopeful that a “no” today will become a “yes” tomorrow. The reality is every competition I go to I have Asian spectators approach me to say how special it is to see themselves in an Elite athlete. I am hopeful that, as we show that we belong in CrossFit, Asian athletes will have many opportunities to align with brands that mirror who they are.

AS YOU AIM TO ELEVATE YOUR ATHLETIC CAREER TO NEW HEIGHTS, WHAT ARE SOME OF THE GOALS YOU HAVE SET FOR YOURSELF?

The CrossFit Games is the biggest and final stage in our sport.

Only the fittest of the fittest in the world qualify and it is an amazing opportunity to showcase what got you there in the first place. As I work towards that opportunity, I have been sure to ‘stay in my lane,’ recognizing the aspects of my training that are conducive to success and tailoring my training, recovery, and the people around me to ensure that I’m moving forward. 

While competing at the Games (and other Elite level competitions, such as the Rogue Invitational) is an athletic goal, another of my goals will always be encouraging diversity in the sport & making fitness inclusive to those who have historically felt unwelcome. I am actively networking with individuals and brands that align with my purpose to amplify that message. 

WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PIECE OF ADVICE YOU WOULD GIVE TO ANYONE PURSUING THEIR PASSIONS, WHETHER IT BE IN SPORTS OR ANY OTHER FIELD?

Being successful doesn’t have to come at the expense of your well-being. As a society, we have accepted that drops in physical health should be attended to, but mental health is overlooked or ignored.

I’ve realized that protecting your peace & knowing when to take a step back to “refill your own cup” is incredibly important. You cannot push through with an empty cup & it’s okay to acknowledge that you need to rest and recover in order to keep moving forward.

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