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August 21, 2023

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When COVID-19 forced Samantha Lee to put her wedding photography/videography business on hold, she seized the opportunity to cherish precious moments with her one-year-old daughter.

As news of the alarming increase in Anti-Asian hate spread, Samantha became deeply concerned about the world her daughter would grow up in.

Born in Malaysia to Chinese parents, Samantha’s family made the life-changing decision to relocate to Australia when she was just eight months old, motivated by her father’s aspiration for a better life. Growing up, Samantha only had blonde dolls to play with, so she wanted to be like her blonde classmates. She thought that they were so lucky to be born that way. 

She wanted differently for her daughter, so she embarked on a quest to find dolls that represented their Asian heritage to help her daughter feel proud of her Asian identity. However, Samantha was disheartened by the lack of diversity and representation available in the toy industry when she couldn’t find any.

Fuelled by a passionate desire to make a difference, Samantha resolved to create dolls that would empower Asian children and celebrate the vibrant tapestry of Asian cultures. Starting with six cultures, Samantha’s goal was to expand her collection to represent as many cultures as possible, including underrepresented regions like Southeast Asia, Vietnam, and the Philippines.

Now, after months of hard work and unwavering dedication, Samantha’s dolls, Joeydolls, are finally ready to be ordered. These dolls embody the beauty and traditions of various Asian cultures, instilling a sense of pride and confidence in children.

Join us as we delve into the inspiring story of Samantha Lee, who, in an exclusive interview with Asian Hustle Network, shares her journey in creating Joeydolls.

LACK OF REPRESENTATION IN DOLLS

When I was growing up, I grew up with only blonde dolls and only saw the same on TV. I remember thinking that I was so envious of my classmates at school – that they were so lucky to be both that way. I also remember thinking that I could never be a princess or a famous actress. Not seeing myself represented meant that I always felt like I was not good enough the way I was, that I didn’t really matter, and that I was only meant to be on the sidelines. 

When I witnessed the rise in anti-Asian hate, I was scared for the world my daughter would grow up in. I began to reflect upon my own experience. I didn’t want her to feel the same shame I grew up with. Since we were in lockdowns during the pandemic, my daughter couldn’t play with other children so I started to look for dolls that could be her companion. Most of the dolls only had fair skin and black hair and they were considered “Asian”. I just couldn’t connect to them, especially since I also experienced colorism while pregnant. I was told that it would be better if my daughter was born with my husband’s fair skin and my eyes (double eyelids). I was really disheartened by the continued concept of beauty in the Asian community. 

Around that time, we celebrated my daughter’s first year birthday by putting her in traditional Chinese and Korean outfits and I wondered why dolls didn’t do the same. I wanted her to not only feel comfortable with who she is, how she looks, and where she comes from. 

THESE DOLLS ARE MORE THAN JUST DOLLS FOR PEOPLE, THEY ARE PART OF THEIR STORY AND THEIR HEALING

I faced a lot of challenges in creating the dolls. I didn’t know anything about producing a doll – or a toy for that matter. I also had no experience in fashion or sewing. I was just a mom who wanted to make a difference. It was hard to find the resources since I also had no contacts in the industry.

I started with the concept of doing 6 ethnicities and then expand in the future. I wanted to make sure that Southeast Asia was represented since they have been underrepresented for so long. Initially, I wanted the dolls to have different skin tones to pick from for each ethnicity, however, it was so difficult to do so on a mass scale.

I was also surprised at how difficult it was to find the right shades for the skin tones and at the same time keep costs low since my production numbers were not large enough. As I was losing so many of my contracts in my photography business, I didn’t have a sustained and reliable income to be able to support this passion project. So I really tried to develop the dolls on a shoestring budget. 

I wanted to start the prototyping and manufacturing process locally but the costs got exponentially larger especially when it was so difficult to find the fabrics and materials we needed. We were so limited in what we were able to source so that’s when I began to look overseas. 

I began developing the dolls with one company that gave a very good price for the dolls, but they had a lot of trouble finding the right skin tone and couldn’t do the hair like we wanted. Then, we found another company that was able to do the skin tones and hair we wanted, but I found that their quality was not acceptable. Quality was very important to me because I really wanted people to feel proud to have these dolls and what they represented.

I often posted to Instagram about my progress and people would respond by saying that they teared up seeing them. I knew that these dolls are more than just dolls for people, they are part of their story and their healing. So many people said that they would have so loved having these dolls when they were younger and it would have helped them feel better about themselves. That’s exactly what I wanted these dolls to do for people – to help them feel that they are worthy in this world. 

It took a lot of dedication to learn each of the cultures and the symbolism behind some of the traditional details. I also wanted the dolls to be safe for babies to have as well, so that’s where I struggled with keeping the details accurate, cost-effective, and most importantly safe for all children. There was a lot of back and forth and redesigning. We went through countless prototypes and so many times I wanted to give up because I felt that I was not up to the task to complete it.

I had to remind myself of my “why”. I decided that instead of trying to hide behind social media, I would be vulnerable and talk about the struggles behind developing these dolls. I was worried that people would tell me to just give up, but instead, they gave me so many messages of support. They pushed me to keep going and told me how much they appreciated what I was doing. That these dolls make such an impact on them! I knew I had to keep going. So I kept pushing. These dolls are not only for my children but also for the other children who NEED these dolls.

YES, WE ARE ASIAN BUT WE HAVE SO MANY DIFFERENCES THAT MAKE US SPECIAL AND UNIQUE

I hope that children will see the dolls and feel proud to learn more about their heritage and also just be comfortable in their own skin. I hope that it helps parents teach their children how worthy they are. I hope that the dolls will help foster positive self-esteem and self-confidence. 

I want to change the narrative – that Asians are not a monolith. Yes, we are Asian but we have so many qualities that make us special and unique. So in doing so, I also hope that these dolls will help create more awareness and education about Asian diversity. That each of our cultures is not the same. That each should be celebrated. 

I hope that our dolls can be a stark contrast to the hate. That’s why I created the campaign #StartAsianLove instead.

CHILDREN AND ADULTS WILL FINALLY FEEL INCLUDED AND REPRESENTED BY DOLLS THAT RESEMBLED THEM

Even when my daughters couldn’t speak, their faces would light up and they would giggle with delight as I designed the dolls on my computer. It was a heartwarming experience, even during moments when I wasn’t fully satisfied with the prototypes. I would hide them around the house or in my office, and my daughters would discover them, hugging and kissing the dolls as if they were their dear companions. The sheer joy they exhibited upon seeing those happy doll faces was truly priceless.

When my youngest daughter Jasmine turned 1, we dressed her in a traditional hanbok. To my delight, my oldest daughter Joey pointed at the Korean doll and exclaimed, “It looks like Jasmine!” On another occasion, she referred to the same doll as a “princess.” It was a deeply touching moment for me because I had never imagined that Asians, including myself, could be seen as princesses.

The feedback I received from parents further affirmed the impact of my work. One parent expressed gratitude for creating a different world for their child, where they could proudly embrace their culture and heritage without the fear of being bullied or pressured to assimilate. The acknowledgment of the value of diversity was deeply meaningful to them.

Another parent expressed admiration for how Joeydolls would positively influence the lives of other girls. The representation of Asian culture was applauded, as it meant that children and adults will finally feel included and represented by dolls that resembled them. The support and well wishes I received from these parents fueled my motivation, and I am grateful for their continued support.

I WAS IN TEARS READING EACH MESSAGE BECAUSE I COULD FEEL HOW EACH PERSON CONNECTED WITH MY STORY

It was amazing to receive all the messages of support on AHN! I was in tears reading each message because I could feel how each person connected with my story and just wanted to give me that push to keep going.

I knew that my story was important. As a community, we needed to see these dolls be finally made and put in the hands of young children, and how these dolls can further impact the community on a much greater level.

I was excited about being the one to push for changing our narrative, breaking stereotypes, and deconstructing racism and colorism. These are all important changes I wanted to make in the world and all the messages solidified how important my work was.

SAMANTHA’S HOPE FOR JOEYDOLLS

My goal is to represent as many ethnicities/cultures within Asia. This will further help solidify the messaging of how beautiful and diverse Asians are! Also, I want to create boy/gender-neutral dolls too.

I hope that children (and adults!) of all backgrounds (not just Asians) will appreciate and love our dolls and what they symbolize. I also have some other fun ideas that I hope to work on that still encompass celebrating the beauty of Asian culture and diversity. 

CONNECT WITH SAMANTHA

Website: joeydolls.com

Instagram: @joeydolls

Facebook: Joeydolls

Youtube: Joeydolls

TikTok: @joeydollsco

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Cheryl Mainland on Making Chinese Cool and Empowering the Next Generation

“Over time, I realized that speaking and understanding Chinese wasn’t just a ‘useful skill’—it is my superpower and key to belonging,” says Cheryl Mainland, Founder & CEO of Dragon Academy. Her fluency in Chinese has been a source of identity and has played a key role in her journey—from understanding her cultural heritage to excelling at Harvard in East Asia Studies and negotiating successful global business deals.

Recognizing the power of language to bridge cultures and connect with 1.3 billion native Chinese speakers, Cheryl is now committed to creating an engaging and interactive multi-media platform for children and adults worldwide to learn Chinese through Dragon Academy.

At its core, Dragon Academy is an epic tale of nine multicultural teens journeying through six mystical realms brimming with ancient legends, mythical beasts, and dragons – all united in a quest to bridge worlds. This story is told across multiple media formats and channels, including a book series, social media content, an AI animation series, and other cultural initiatives. Complementing their adventure is a highly gamified app that transforms Chinese language learning into an exciting, immersive, (and even addictive) experience.

A mother of three, serial entrepreneur, lifelong adventurer, and avid surfer, Cheryl has become an inspiration to many. She has been featured in top media outlets such as The Wall Street Journal, Financial Times, Vogue, Tatler, WWD, and numerous other prestigious publications.

Cheryl Mainland, Founder & CEO, Dragon Academy (Image Source: Samanta Katz)

The Struggle of Language and Identity

Cheryl embodies the essence of a third-culture kid. Born in Taiwan, she is half-Chinese, half-American, and raised across Asia, she navigated the complexities of identity, language, and belonging from an early age.

Cheryl with her maternal and paternal grandmothers Taipei, Taiwan, 1983 (Image Source: Cheryl Mainland)

“Like many of us, I grew up straddling two worlds. The ultimate translator of languages, cultures, generations.  I carry with me the collective memory of (boring) Saturday Chinese school, the struggle of keeping up with my Chinese lessons, and the challenge of celebrating my heritage while forging my own path,” Cheryl says. “After having kids, I witnessed their similar struggles – nothing has changed.” She recognized that the traditional methods of learning Chinese – endless hours of copying hanzi characters on square grid paper (田字格) – have experienced minimal change over the centuries, relying on rote memorization rather than engagement.

Not wanting her children to face the same language learning struggles she faced (and hundreds of thousands of other Chinese learners), Cheryl is embracing this as an opportunity to spark a cultural movement that breathes new life into the Chinese language and culture. Dragon Academy’s strategy ignites a passion for learning through an epic narrative delivered via a highly gamified app, an AI mini-series, a book series, social media content, and a future film adaptation. Each of the multimedia platform components captures the story-based enthusiasm, teaching Chinese through nine proprietary building block methods that make learning Chinese fun, engaging, and truly relevant.

Dragon Academy Universe: the foundation of a highly gamified Chinese language learning app, book series, cartoons, feature films, documentaries, merchandise, and console games. (Image Source: Cheryl Mainland)

Cheryl’s Entrepreneurial Journey: Empowering the Masses

Throughout Cheryl’s entrepreneurial ventures, a constant theme has been empowering communities by identifying unmet needs and transforming the “uncool” into “cool” through innovative solutions. From dressing corporate women in clothes that boosted their self-confidence in the boardroom (The Fold London), to inspiring tweens and teens “to wear their invisible crown” on all special occasions (PromGirl.com), to reimagining sun-protective fashion—proving that staying safe in the sun doesn’t mean sacrificing style (Mott50)—her work consistently uplifts and inspires.


Most recently, to celebrate the launch of Dragon Academy Book 1 during Lunar New Year 2025, Cheryl partnered with artist Archie Geotina to honor the 46 million-strong Chinese diaspora through Pearls, an art series. Chinese Pearls features three generations of female surfers from diverse Chinese heritage – Indonesian Chinese, Singaporean Chinese, mixed-Chinese families, adoptees, and expats – riding Bali’s iconic waves in modern QiPao, empowering the community and highlighting its resilience, heritage, and unity.

A Future for the Community

“As an Asian American entrepreneur, Asian American mom, and a lifelong advocate for bridging cultures, I resonate deeply with AHN’s mission to uplift and empower the global Asian diaspora,” Cheryl affirms.  

She draws a parallel between Dragon Academy’s goal to reignite the next generation’s connection to their heritage and AHN’s commitment to rewriting narratives and celebrating Asian excellence. When asked about her future plans, Cheryl confidently states, “We are on an ambitious mission to increase the percentage of the world that speaks Chinese by 5% over the next five years.”

An estimated 5 million people started learning Japanese because of Manga, 15 million took up Korean because of K-pop, Dragon Academy is set to start a Chinese language movement. By juxtaposing storytelling and technology, Dragon Academy is approaching Chinese language learning from an “obsess, learn, master” order. 

“Imagine a world where kids want to learn Chinese because they see it as their ultimate superpower and key to belonging. That’s the future we’re building,” exclaims Cheryl.

And the journey is just beginning. Dragon Academy Book 1 launched at the beginning of this year. The highly gamified learning app, immersive AI mini-series, and a host of exciting cultural initiatives are currently in development. The first round of external investment has commenced – seeking visionary, like-minded investors to join this transformative movement.  Dragon Academy is poised to redefine the landscape of Chinese language learning and cultural exploration.

DRAGON ACADEMY “Traditional Scene.” The OG Dragon Keepers, ancestors of the 9 multicultural teenage protagonists of the Dragon Academy Universe. (Artist: Andrew Archer)

Learn More about Dragon Academy

Website: https://dragonacademy.com/

Instagram: @dragonacademy_official

Book 1: www.amazon.com/dp/B0DM4YDLL3

Connect With Cheryl Mainland

Instagram: @cherylmainland

LinkedIn: Cheryl Mainland

Email: Cheryl@dragonacademy.com

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The Power of Representation: Ami Desai’s Impact on Media and Beauty

The path to success in content creation is never paved with roses, and no one understands this quite like Ami Desai. From her beginnings in broadcast journalism to becoming a well-known beauty and lifestyle influencer, Ami has shaped her career through authenticity, adaptability, and a strong dedication to representation.

As an Indian-American raised in Los Angeles, Ami grew up as a first-generation South Asian immigrant, a generation that deeply felt the need for greater South Asian representation in the media. After earning her degree from UC Berkeley and a master’s from Boston University, she built a solid media foundation through roles at CNN and Inside Edition. During this time behind the scenes, she discovered her passion for on-camera hosting, eventually landing her dream role as the host of the first digital show for Oprah.com. In 2011, Ami made a pivotal move by hosting a luxury travel show in India, which allowed her to reconnect with her roots and gain international exposure.

Simultaneously, Ami began building her own beauty business with her family. She went on to become one of the first South Asian content creators to collaborate with major brands like Toyota and Pampers on large campaigns, while also highlighting important Indian traditions and holidays such as Diwali. Recognizing the lack of representation for her ethnicity in the media and beauty industries, Ami founded her life’s mission, merging her experiences as a host, makeup artist, and mom to help other women advocate for themselves while balancing various roles. This gap in representation became her motivation to amplify underrepresented voices and promote diversity.

In 2016, Ami took a leap of faith, leaving traditional media behind to forge her own path in the influencer space. Despite pitching herself as a contributor or expert to various outlets, she faced rejection, which drove her to create her own content on social media platforms. Through this experience, she realized that content creation involved more than just posting visually appealing images—it required strategic planning, engagement tracking, and brand pitching. Even as the industry pushed her to narrow her niche, Ami confidently embraced her multifaceted identity, sharing content that reflected her life as a mother, beauty expert, and entrepreneur. This authenticity deeply resonated with her audience, ultimately helping her build a loyal fanbase connecting creators and audiences.

In the latest episode of the Creators Podcast, presented by Asian Hustle Network in collaboration with Meta Prosper, Ami shares a story of resilience, adaptability, and a deep dedication to her community. Whether you’re an aspiring content creator, a beauty lover, or someone who enjoys learning about authentic journeys, this episode is filled with valuable insights and inspiration.

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Is the Model Minority Myth an Obstacle to Real Representation?

The Trap of Positive Stereotypes

The original “Charlie’s Angels” was a successful hit, not only because it made $93 million and grossed more than $264 million at global offices, but it also created exposure for Asian American representation.

Lucy Liu plays Alex Munday, a strategist, expert martial artist, and agent. Munday’s parents were Havard professors of economics and philosophy, and she, at an early age, was a child prodigy excelling at chess, equestrianism, fencing, archery, and gymnastics. Besides that, she holds a medical degree, spent her teenage years learning with a Tibetan guru, danced with the Stuttgart Ballet, and was a part-time aerospace engineer and on-call consultant for NASA. 

Lucy Liu as Alex Munday in 'Charlie's Angels' (Image source: 'Charlie's Angels' - 2000)

Lucy Liu as Alex Munday in ‘Charlie’s Angels’ (Image source: ‘Charlie’s Angels’ – 2000)

Does the entire introduction sound familiar? Swap out the name Alex Munday for your overachieving Asian cousin, sibling, or the “top Asian kid” your parents always compare you to, and you’d likely end up with a strikingly similar description.

It is undeniable that contemporary films, comedies, memes, and other forms of content have taken extensive lengths to represent Asian culture. Yet, they have also perpetuated a troubling stereotype. To complicate matters, many within the Asian community unknowingly reinforce these portrayals, cementing these narratives even further.

The article’s purpose is not to mock or diminish the accomplishments of any individual, community, or effort in striving for representation and equality. On the contrary, it is essential to celebrate the contributions of the many talents and media that have significantly advanced global awareness and appreciation of Asian culture and heritage. Hence, the article wishes to provide a nuanced perspective on contemporary topics while providing debate on the norms, beliefs, and habits created in our society.

What is the Model Minority Myth?

According to the University of Michigan, Densho, and other sources, after World War II, the United States underwent significant changes in its laws and policies to address mounting international criticism of racial prejudice and ongoing protests from ethnic communities within the country. 

“Success Story, Japanese American Style” by William Petersen (Image source: Smithsonian APA)

“Success Story, Japanese American Style” by William Petersen (Image source: Smithsonian APA)

As PBS illustrates, new regulations like the Chinese Exclusion Act shifted toward dismantling exclusionary measures and advocating for Asian communities and immigrants, particularly skilled and educated migrants. The University of Michigan further exemplifies, articles like “Success Story, Japanese American Style” by William Petersen began to appear  – praising how despite years of racial prejudice and discrimination, Japanese Americans were still able to achieve great socioeconomic status thanks to hard work and other cultural values of discipline and compliance to social hierarchy. 

By focusing on the facets of income, education level, and low crime rates as the definition of success instead of underlining economic and social factors, Asian Americans are often portrayed as hardworking, disciplined, and intelligent—a concept scholars refer to as the model minority. 

Model Minority Myth in Silencing Activism

While this stereotype may appear beneficial on the surface, Ted-Ed, in collaboration with Densho, emphasizes that there are no “good” stereotypes. As cited by PBS, cultural historian Robert G. Lee argues that such inclusion does not promote equity but instead undermines activism and disregards the struggles of other marginalized groups.

This is significant because the model minority myth obscures disparities within the diverse Asian American community, perpetuating the misconception that Asian identity is monolithic, often reduced to just China, Korea, and Japan. Furthermore, the stereotype marginalizes individuals who fail to meet its expectations, silencing those who speak out against it.

Societal pressure on Asian individuals (Image source: Kamanaoleeward)

Societal pressure on Asian individuals (Image source: Kamanaoleeward)

For instance, an Asian student with subpar grades might be labeled as lazy rather than being understood in the context of contributing factors like economic hardship or family struggles. The danger of accepting “positive” stereotypes lies in their ability to perpetuate harmful narratives and create unrealistic standards, fostering a cycle of self-framing that damages both individuals and the broader Asian community.

When Representation Unintentionally Reinforces Stereotypes

Let’s use another example to understand this dichotomy. 

Ke Huy Quan, the American actor of Vietnamese descent, is well known in the notorious “Indiana Jones and The Temple of Doom”, “Everything Everywhere All At Once”, and “Loki” Season 2. His selection as an exemplar highlights how his journey encapsulates the model minority stereotype and demonstrates how Asian communities may unconsciously perpetuate such narratives.

In “Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom”, Quan portrays Short Round, a clever Japanese sidekick aiding Dr. Jones on his adventures. Ironically, this character aligns with the early stages of the model minority stereotype. Short Round comes from a disadvantaged background, surviving through pickpocketing, but his association with Dr. Jones transforms him into a more thoughtful and capable individual, elevating his social status by the film’s conclusion.

In “Everything Everywhere All At Once”, Quan embraces the archetype of the modern Bruce Lee or Jackie Chan—a martial arts expert and mentor to the protagonist, reminiscent of Mr. Miyagi in “The Karate Kid”. Finally in Loki Quan plays Ouroboros, a lovable and intelligent technician who once was a writer and a teacher of theoretical physics at Cal Tech. 

Ke Huy Quan (Image source: The Independent)

Ke Huy Quan (Image source: The Independent)

In a meta and somewhat ironic twist, both Ke Huy Quan’s career and the roles he portrays reflect how Asians may unknowingly perpetuate the stereotypes they are often subject to. While Quan’s rise to fame is a testament to his dedication and perseverance, his portrayal of characters like the “witty young sidekick” learning from a Caucasian hero, the martial arts mentor, and the intellectual expert, inadvertently reinforces the very tropes that have shaped the Asian image in media. Despite his immense talent and the love he has earned within the Asian community, these roles contribute to the ongoing cycle of cultural expectations and representation.

Breaking the Myth of the Model Asian

It is entirely debatable that it is not the fault of the actors. We admire Ke Huy Quan for his remarkable journey and his representation of the Asian community. Nevertheless, through observing content produced by modern media, one will recognize certain tropes from the Asian community. 

Steven He satirizes Asian parents, Jimmy O. Yang joking about Asian habits, Lily in “Pitch Perfect”, Rajesh Koothrappali in “The Big Bang Theory”, Louis and Jessia Huang in “Fresh Off The Boat”, and the list goes on. Even the news you see about an “Asian underdog politician” rising to power or the “overlooked Asian business owner” continues to reinforce these themes. While these portrayals are well-intended, they still fall into a pattern of representation that, ironically, reflects the very stereotypes they aim to challenge.

These stereotypes create an environment of competition and segregation in the Asian community, where individuals feel pressured to conform to a specific image. To maintain an idealized representation, certain behaviors become expected, specific careers are favored, and everyone feels compelled to excel in particular areas.

A ramification of this mindset would be far-reaching. For example, economic struggles may be ignored, as the stereotype dictates that all Asians should be successful. Mental health issues among children are dismissed because it is assumed that the Asian parenting and education system naturally fosters resilience. Furthermore, social problems like drug use or teenage pregnancy are seen as impossible within this community because Asians are stereotypically perceived as disciplined and morally upright. These misconceptions, while seemingly small, perpetuate harmful beliefs and ultimately hinder inclusivity, reinforcing negative stereotypes that shape the broader perception of the Asian community.

Shaping Our Own Story in Media and Beyond

“There are more Asians than any kind of race on the planet. That means we are the majority, we dictate normal behavior,” Ronny Cheng states in his comedy skit.

Asia comprises 59% of the world’s population, hence we are the majority. However, this work is not a manifesto calling for the unification of an ideal but serves as a reflection of the society we live in. The media plays a pivotal role in shaping our perception. The argument is not to elicit a conspiracy theory but to help readers ponder the question, how do we want to be represented? Thanks to pioneers like Lucy Liu and Ke Huy Quan, the Asian community has gradually won more exposure from media outlets. Now, it is the turn of the new generation to represent the Asian community in all its diversity and complexity.

Sources:

The Conversation, Pew Research Center, Adoptive Families, 2 Sao, Vietcetera, TruTV, USA Today, Tien Phong, Screen Rant, Marvel, Mary Sue, Indiana Jones Wiki Fandom, Charlie Angels Wiki Fandom, Vanity Fair, Washington Post, Ted Ed, Densho, PBS, University of Michigan.

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The American Dream: A Promise, a Paradox, and the Asian Experience

The Immigrant Struggle

“We dream of going to America, to change our lives, we believed. But my life changed so much. I felt sad about life, didn’t know the language, and didn’t know the roads. I had no friends, so I felt very sad.” – Phong, a Vietnamese American expat interviewed by the Pew Research Center.

“I sometimes, just a little, wish that I would disappear so that my parents and my sister could be better off.” – Nolan, an Asian American interviewed by the Pew Research Center.

Dreams vs. Reality

The American Dream is often celebrated as a path to success, yet its reality is far more nuanced. Tales of rags to riches from Asian peers suggest its promise, but the Pew Research Center reports that one in ten Asian Americans still live in poverty as of 2024. The issue lies not solely in the Dream itself but in how it is constructed and understood.

For many Asians, the American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience—a belief that effort alone can overcome systemic barriers. But resilience, by its nature, demands enduring hardship and accepting foreignness, perpetuating a narrative that reinforces isolation and discrepancy.

The American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience (Image Source: Roberto Parada)

The American Dream is synonymous with upward mobility achieved through hard work and resilience (Image Source: Roberto Parada)

The Illusion of Gold

The idolization of a Western nation paved in gold is an illusion that perpetuates xenophobia and the model minority myth. This ideological flaw is alluring and dangerous. We have all heard heartbreaking stories of illegal labor exports and stowaway immigrants. Yet we tend to remember the rags-to-riches stories because it is comforting to view ourselves as the ones who might make it. All while labeling these immigrants as illegal, the other, the individual Asian Americans who will live in poverty. But by doing so, we have fallen trapped in the American Dream, clawing our way to the top for the sake of others. 

After the pandemic, anti-Asian and hate crimes have increased. The encounter paints a reflection of our society, there is no line between the one and the other nine, we are Asians and that is our identity. Then is the American Dream a lie? Not necessarily—but it is far from universal.

Community as the Key

Like all dreams, it is what we make of it.  Whether in America, Asia, or any part of the world, opportunities coexist with difficulties. Moving to another country means tackling obstacles such as language and cultural barriers alongside the burden you once had at home. Statistics show that 61% of Asian adults seek family and friends when facing financial burdens. This can become challenging when migrating to a new country. 

The key lies in recognizing that success is not achieved alone. Building networks and fostering solidarity within communities can challenge the isolating demands of resilience and redefine the Dream as a collective effort toward meaningful progress.

The American Dream is both a beacon of hope and a paradox. For many Asian Americans, the pursuit of upward mobility comes with sacrifices that are often overlooked. Yet, success doesn’t need to be a solitary journey. By embracing shared struggles and fostering a supportive community, one can find hope by redefining what the American Dream truly means.

Sources: Pew Research Center – 1 in 10: Redefining the Asian American Dream (Short Film), Pew Research Center – The Hardships and Dreams of Asian Americans Living in Poverty, Edelman, C&EN, Reappropriate.